I am using 7960 Cisco phones
I found a great link to ring tones and downloaded them. Also included the RINGLISTxml file. I see the TFTP download of the ringlist file. When I go to settings on the phone, I can play each one (funny, I see it download from tftp each time, even the same tone over and over). When I select a tone on the phone, I get an x in the checkbox so it looks good. When I call the phone, I always get the default ring (1of2) that came with the phone. Also, if I close the tptf server, no more ring tones!